Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Wedding Crashers


May and June are definitely the months to visit China if you are interested in crashing weddings. I can not even begin to count the number of times that we saw men and women dressed in suits and white gowns to take their wedding photos at West Lake and the numerous gardens...If there is one season in China there is definitely a wedding season. It seemed that no matter what day of the week it was we always ran into people taking pictures. This was on our boat ride out at West Lake...keep in mind it was like 85 and humid on this day. The best part was we even spotted some of the brides wearing jeans or other pants underneath their dresses. When we asked Chengyan about this we were actually surprised to find out that most often the couples do not take the pictures on their actual wedding day, but sometimes even a month afterward which is totally different from here when we take them most often the same day. Also usually the bride wears a different colored dress for the ceremony, the favorite being red if they are into custom, but more and more brides are turning to the western style with a white gown. We were even lucky enough to crash a wedding reception one night for dinner...we were the only ones in the restaurant who were not there for the reception, but we got to see the whole show. They had flares shooting from the floor and stage, they had a hired announcer to run the program, and of course a hired performer who sang just a little bit too loud.

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These folks weren't on the itinerary (Jason Skinner)




Throughout our travels in China, I have met many individuals and shared interesting dialogue with each of them – the topics have varied, along with appropriateness, for such reason I will be ignoring what was discussed. These are the folks, in no particular order, whom I’ve befriended.
From the Reggae Bar in Hangzhou, the latest of my nights in China (returning to the hotel near 5:00 in the morning), I met many interesting characters. A bigger Chinese guy, with tattoos, who went by the name of Elephant, the bar-tenders Sean and Jake (at the end of the night Sean ended up waiving my extensive bar tab, so I gave him a nice tip), a fellow named Rod and later his uncle, Kana; Elias from Ethiopa, who was studying Chinese, a friend of Elias’ - Emmanuel, Dave from Ontario, and lastly a beauty by the name of Wang Meng. She is my age and is currently studying in Beijing. These guys were all older than me, but no more than a few years – except Kana.
After we visited the YuYuan Garden in Shanghai, two young women, art students, approached Jake and I and led us to a gallery where their work and their professors’ work was on display. Being an artist, and taken in by their friendliness, I couldn’t help but purchase a watercolor from one of them (I can’t remember either of their names, nor did I write them down, silly me; however, the watercolor I have is stamped, so Chengyan can translate for me).
When the class visited Zhejiang Forestry University, we were all greeted by students and had about an hour and a half to spend with them. Four ladies accompanied me and we walked around the small lake on campus. They were graduate students, studying landscape architecture, and they were very nice; I enjoyed my afternoon. Their names were Wu Tian jing, Wang Xiao Ru, Yu Hui yun, and Shi jie Qiong.
During our latter stay in Shanghai, I met three young women and this one dude – also a late night.
While in Suzhou, I met a few different people: a young lady at an art gallery (she was working) who’s English name was snow and at that same gallery I met a man who actually received a master’s degree in electrical engineering at the University of Minnesota – this was indeed a surprise – his name is Jian Ding. Earlier that evening I met a guy named Thomas, from Ohio, at a bar. Thomas is in the middle of a two-year contract, fabricating and powder-coating car parts. He was kind enough to inform me what happens on the second floor of the bar – when asked he responded, “Whatever you want, my friend” as he pointed at all the pretty young women serving drinks and told me I could take my pick (Don’t worry, Mom, I finished my drink and left, I was only out to take pictures that night). Two women from Canada who are teaching English in Suzhou asked me if I was doing a documentary (apparently walking around with a camera and a tripod is a great way to meet people), we chatted and walked for a bit before they went on their way. Also when I was setting up to snap a few, a bartender wanted to look at my pictures; within a couple minutes I had her friend in the bar make me another drink. It was and “English” pub, with lots of Brits and soccer on the telly.
While at the Shanghai Botanical Garden, I ended up talking to someone from a wedding party – he was taking a break from the photo shoot. I talked with him and he translated for me so I could talk with the photographer too. Turns out, this guy, Hua gong Heng, went by the English name Jason, also. The photographer’s name is Lin jiang xiang. They liked soccer; these guys were cool.
After half the class returned home, Jake and I met a couple from Finland – we had lunch and shared a very cramped van-ride with them to and from the Great Wall.
At the Administrator’s Garden, in Suzhou, I met a woman by the name of Claudia; we were looking at the same painting in the gift shop. Claudia was on a “business” trip from Germany. She gave me her card in case I ever end up in Germany. And speaking of Germany, at the hostel in Beijing, I had a nice conversation with Jens, the journalist, also from Germany. He lives in Kiel and is visiting his sister, who is living in China and teaching German (her husband works for Audi). Jens’ birthday is July 8, one day after mine, and after expressing my thoughts about President Bush, Jens shook my hand; later he told me he was also a “greenish-hippie”. Jens is actually 20 years older than I am and he studied archeology; he works in the T.V. and radio field writing essays, articles, and commentating.
Our first day in Shanghai we ran into two older woman at the Pearl Tower. With the help of Chengyan, we found out one of them has a son – a student – in the U.S. She thought I looked a pretty girl because of my hair; and on that note I’ll mention the security guard at the Shanghai Art Museum who, upon first glance from behind, thought I was walking into the wrong bathroom. At the museum, I also talked to an older gentleman on vacation from Australia; he wasn’t impressed with his “civil-servant” tour guide and suggested that, with my interest in Asia, a trip to Vietnam is well worth it. Apparently the latest generations are over the whole ‘war thing’ and very understandable when it comes to younger Americans and other westerners.
Also at the Hostel, we spoke with three fellows from Denmark – Simon, Michael, and some other guy (I forget his name). They are finishing up their trip around the world during their gap-year. Another younger woman, Ilaria, from Italy, I saw last night and talked to this morning. She is also staying at the hostel and use to live in China; she’s back to visit friends and have a good time.
When the class was driving back to Shanghai we stopped at rest stop to fill up on gas; we were playing Frisbee and a couple Chinese workers (they might have been security, I’m not sure) were spectating. So I decided to introduce them to the wondrous Frisbee and within five minutes we were tossing across the parking lot – that was a lot of fun. We also played Frisbee with a bunch of engineering students while waiting outside a craft museum in the French Concession of Shanghai; that was cool too.
Miscellaneous persons: at night there were numerous security guards and Chinese residents or tourists who wanted to see the pictures I was taking at night – few spoke English, they were all nice and they were all happy for me to share my photos with them. I interrupted a couple on West Lake, in Hangzhou, as I took pictures of the lake at night. Jake and I encountered a nice man who helped us figure out where we were in the middle of Shanghai. There is also the guy and the girls who sold me my cheap-ass watch that stopped working; and, of course, the tour guides: Adam, Lili, and Leo. (Adam and Leo in the picture) I love meeting new people – it’s a good thing I know English, other wise I’d be lost.

Reflection



Now that everyone made it back to Minnesota safe and sound, something comes up to mind. As it was my first trip to Asia, I am absolutely delighted to see China and its wonderful, smiling and welcoming people. Throughout my visit, I could feel that the Chinese citizens that I encountered made a lot of effort to be helpful and pleasant. It is challenging to be in a country where, I felt illiterate most of the time. I don't have to remind anyone how many people are everywhere at all time, but I always felt safe, even when I was the last one that entered the metro and a "metro attendant", physically pushed me in to make sure I would not stay on the platform. Few things still amaze me, even when one reads it in the newspaper or see it in a documentary of some sort, I could not get over 2 facts : 1. It is very crowded! and 2. People need a job... I saw numerous times people "working", however their job was already filled with 2,3, 4, or more. Here are a couple of examples, to cross a street by foot ( a "life threatening situation!") there was always 3 to 5 policemen; and half of them were smoking and having conversation with each other, not paying attention to the pedestrians! The second is, when we went to No.1 Department Store in the Nanking shopping district in Shanghai, I was stunned to see at least 10 women shop assistants, well dressed and smiling in the jewelry department, standing behind the glass counters filled with mostly jade ....as if they will have 10 potential clients at one time...amazing! However the system, it seems to work for now. It will probably change in the future as the economic system is transforming itself slowly. A beautiful and charming country.


Bye-Bye to Beijing

After a brief ride to the airport by taxi, Collin, Alli, and Hannah began their departure from China at the Beijing International Airport.
After being stuck in line behind the Purdue Marching Band for a few hours, everything seemed to be going well as we boarded the plane. Alli and I made it on the plane, but lost Collin after a last minute bag check as we entered the plane.
As Alli and I took our seats and waited patiently for Collin, a Chinese couple came up to us and showed proof that we were sitting in their seats. It turns out that the airline had made duplicate tickets for our seats. We began getting impatient about Collins whereabouts and worried about our seats on the plane. However, everything turned out better than expected as we were upgraded to business class and found Collin comfortably sitting on the upper level waiting for us.
Complete with reclining seats, socks, and toothbrushes, the flight in business class was great and the twelve hours flight seemed to fly by even though we departed nearly an hour late.
However when we left the plane and began making our way to our connecting flight, we ran into lines and were some of the last few to collect our luggage. It turns out that we missed our connecting flight to Minneapolis.
Nevertheless, United Airlines was very accommodating and booked us on a later flight that evening and after an eventful day we made it home.

June 3, 2008; a late wake up at the Hostel in Beijing (Jason Skinner)

Here’s the deal with espresso: make sure, when ordering, you are paying for yourself and not yourself and your friend in the corner. Second, rainy days always call for a double shot. Here’s the deal with the double – the first shot is to wake up and the second shot is for the nap later in the day. Beware, because every third cup of coffee is a guarantee to make you sleepy. And finally, room temp espresso is always – always – stronger than the hot stuff; don’t ask me why.

I don’t know if it’s the rain or my beat-by-Beijing-to-a-pulp-body, but I have absolutely nothing on my mind. It’s kind of nice, except that on days such as these, especially when in Beijing, with plenty of time to kill, I would be expecting more motivation, and a more active imagination. That espresso should kick in soon; or maybe I need to order that toast.
The two-dollar pair of flip-flops I picked up in Alabama has served me well in China. The foam has completely depressed to the weight of my feet and is less than one centimeter thick in a few places; I’m keen in wearing these sandals until holes appear – then I’ll know I need to acquire a new pair. It is easy for me to purchase new footwear, wearing the soles thin, rendering them useless is the best part of knowing you got your money’s worth. When one pair bites the dust it is obviously time to get a new pair. I like to acquire my footwear on an as-needed basis; this way selection is easier because my options are always limited by what’s available.
The espresso is working its way into my blood now; still, I see a trip to Starbucks happening later today – and I do hope the rain continues to fall. While in China I’ve felt one rainstorm, seen lightening once, heard rain again and felt a drizzle twice. The storm at the Zhejiang Forestry University was nice, but as I have experienced, rain in China is not quite the same as rain in Minnesota or Wisconsin. The atmosphere, I predict, has the most to do with this phenomenon.
Anther reason I would like to find a coffee shop is this: the music this morning at the cafĂ© in the hostel seriously sucks, and is too loud considering – in my opinion – the poor selection. I feel that extra shot kicking in, as the yawns are creeping up on me.